Hi. I am Nicole, a third generation Chinese American, born and raised here in San Francisco.
I did not become a therapist so that I can tell you how to live your life- no one can possibly know that. But every day, I get to see profound changes happen when people start to truly listen to themselves, and that is why I do this work.
As a therapist, I have an unassuming, curious and open style of exploring your inner world. I enjoy working with people who have a "beginner's mind," who have never been to therapy before, and come from families where therapy is a foreign concept. I understand and appreciate the awkwardness and newness of being vulnerable in front of someone, and think often about the difficulty of finding genuine human connection within our technology-fueled, fast-paced culture. Now more than ever, I find that people are desiring a place that is free of distractions, where they can experience being alive in the present moment.
I have worked with a diverse range of individuals, adolescents, couples, and families in a variety of clinic settings, as well as school-based counseling with middle school students. My work at Access Institute sharpened my skills and focus on psychoanalytic approaches. I have given talks/workshops on the psychology of Chinese American identity, the importance of boundaries, self-care for social justice activists, and the intersection between psychoanalysis and social justice.
In addition to formal education and training in traditional psychotherapy, I find Buddhist psychology and the practice of meditation to be extremely useful in my work. My work background is in school-based counseling, LGBTQ advocacy, sexual violence crisis counseling, youth development, culturally-based social services, and creative arts.
- Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology from California Institute for Integral Studies
- Bachelors in Sociology, Wesleyan University
- Access Institute
- The Clinic Without Walls
- Larkin Street Youth Services
- Asian Community Mental Health Services
- Northern California Society for Psychoanalytic Psychology
- Asian American Psychological Association
- Queer Therapists of Color
- Open Path Collective